Men confused dating
I'm a Scorpio woman and I've been involved with a Pisces man. I want to know what took him so long to tell me this, and is there hope for us in the future, because if there is one thing I'm sure of , I touch him on a very emotional level, and my personal opinion on him is that he doesn't know what to do with his feelings, and probably doesn't want a serious relationship. I also want to know why a Pisces man took 4 months to let me know he only sees me as a good friend, but won't even talk to me anymore. I travel long distances to see him and he barely makes time for me, which makes me think he's not that into me, but then he makes a big deal about introducing me to his family, he is confusing.I feel very connected to him on so many levels, but still confused . In the past I asked him so many times are we just friends and he would mislead me and say no not friends, but then what? When I ask him if he likes me because by the way he treats me I can't tell, he laughs and says, 'of course i do, what are you talking about? He was the one who pushed for us to become exclusive but then doesn't make time to see me. Ladies pisces men love a woman who gives them a taste of their own medicine. Have some fun & while ur at it don,t be predictable.
Yes, it can mean that he’s trying to gently ease his way out of the relationship. Sure, they’re rooting for you, but it’s uncomfortable as heck. Usually it’s the women that don’t get men and fail – blaming their situation on him or others – that say men won’t commit.Is he still in love with me like he claimed before? I myself have been seeing an aries guy (2.5 months now) but just the same as you, I was left confused after the first month. When I asked him why he was interested, he said he'd always been with women older than he, he likes it that way as we know what we want. I got showered with his time, ph calls, texts & compliments & then it dwindled.I'm not into mind games or any relationship games for that matter & I'm gemini!Not so that you will lose all hope and fall into despair…I tell you this because when you try to get him back out based on the wrong understanding, you’ll probably fail and lose him. If you want to know more about men and how they REALLY deal with the idea of commitment, check out this video I made.Men can AND will commit – it’s just a matter of understanding how he arrives at that decision.I asked my aries once about him going quiet or shutting down & he said "this is how i am when I'm tired (he works 90hrs a week) just ask my family." I've never asked him again & i have full trust.
He's 25 & i'm 38 & I just feel if our relationship is meant to develop into anything more, it will.
that happens to you when you hear a guy talk about feeling this way is:– You Panic! Because you feel like the rug has been pulled out from under you.
And the one thing you thought was safe and sound – your relationship – has just turned into a commit to you! He’ll associate your presence with imprisonment, no matter how much you try to convince him otherwise.
Don't put any pressure on him, don't ask the same question more than once.
His first answer is THE answer, it aint gonna change!
At least, your stories makes me feel a little better and allow me to take a step back and see what's really happening between my pisces and me. I am gay so I met a guy 3 months ago, met 3times once in every 4 weeks. I can almost guess what date and time it's going to be. When he comes over, he is completely different person that he is all over me...compliments, constant flirtation, gives me expressions as if he wants to be with me for life.