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Getting back in the dating game after divorce

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Martha agrees with me that dating after 60 doesn’t have to be so darn serious. These same women have absolutely no problem expecting a man to be rich and devilishly handsome. In a strange harmonious way, we’re all in this together. Margaret is passionate about building dynamic and engaged communities that improve lives and change perceptions.The truth is that both men and women need to be realistic when it comes to dating after 60. The sooner men and women over 60 accept who we are, the better. Martha recommends that older women take the time to write down what they are looking for in a partner. If “good looks” or “money” are at the top of your list, you may be setting yourself up for disappointment.

It’s more convenient and by spreading your net wider than, the opportunities to meet different people expands exponentially.Yet, considering all of that and the mixture of emotions, what do I see? Despite feeling fearful, insecure and scared as most people do, they still are hopeful about their future, love, a new relationship, and life after their divorce.It is possible to hold two opposing feelings – for example, hope and fear – and still learn how to move through your divorce and embrace (eventually) dating.That means cultivating relationships away from our roots and often means spending less time with family and old friends.So, to meet people, women turn to online dating to find a partner.For years after my divorce, I couldn’t imagine going on a date with another man. Then, as the years passed, I learned to love my independence.

The idea of letting another man into my life simply wasn’t appealing.

The hope in sharing this information is to provide you what it means to date in 2019 and to understand that most women feel the same way, which provides us comfort and hope for the future as we navigate these often choppy and unfamiliar waters with uncertainty. The survey indicates that 78% of women have started to think about dating by the time they sign on the dotted line.

Divorce has its own path and seldom are any two situations the same. To understand that number its equally important to know that 50% of women are thinking about dating in the early stages of divorce while 28% started thinking about dating once their divorce is final.

Now, I’m starting to feel like it may be time to give dating a second look.

Over the last few years, I’ve interviewed dating experts like David Wygant and Lisa Copeland. So, as you can imagine, she has a lot to say about dating after divorce. Martha says that there is one question that every woman should ask herself before dating after a divorce. There are so many wonderful things that you can do with your time and being single is absolutely a viable lifestyle for many women.

Fear has a way of keeping us stuck, feeling immobilized, preventing us from doing the things we want to do. Picking the wrong person, repeating old patterns of dating and relationships, not being able to trust another person (or in some ways, trust themselves), and not finding someone.