Dating wrong guy
If he still isn’t able to really take in what you are saying, you have to realize that you deserve more and will be hurt if this continues. If the thought of a lifelong commitment makes you cringe, you need to look at what the root cause is – why are you dating him in the first place? He maybe just wants a different lifestyle than you. Take a look at what he is telling you he wants in life. If spending time with him exhausts you and you feel as if you want to avoid spending time with him all together – this is a warning sign you are dating the wrong guy. Figure it out now so that you can have the adventurous, fun relationship where you can’t wait to be together. If your boyfriend has no interests or hobbies outside of your relationship, perhaps you are dating the wrong guy. But they can’t stay that way or retreat from participating in life.Time to think about what you need and know when can’t give it to you. He might be a good guy who wants to have a serious relationship but just isn’t right for you. You should feel alive and happy with your boyfriend, not down, avoiding, making other plans, etc. If he’s not passionate about anything and he doesn’t have any life goals, you shouldn’t hope that your life with him will be amazing. See if you can be a positive influencer in his life. If nothing takes hold, he may have some fear around failure that he has to work out for himself.
If each difficult conversation, for instance, about religion, politics, or how many children you want, makes him withdrawl and there is a pattern of avoiding it all together or more than that he gets upset by your bringing up and topic or discussion you may be dating the wrong man.Is it with kindness, patience, acceptance – just look at all of it and see for yourself how things really are – then make a decision about whether or not this is right for you.If you feel like your partner never listens to you, you might be dating the wrong man.While most men complain about women being needy and clingy, there are guys who are more clingy than girls.If your boyfriend is one of them, you may be dating the wrong guy.Do you feel like you are wearing a mask when you are with him?
The trust is the trusth and being who you are around him should start right from the very beginning.
However keep in mind that you don’t want to be someone’s everything.
Neediness is just not attractive and wears on a person over time.
In the past, you may have wondered why you always seem to end up with the wrong guys.
The ones who were “broken”, had crazy behavior, unfaithful, unable to commit, smooth liar, bad liar, sneaky, inconsiderate, total opposite of his “nice” family, raging lunatic…You get my drift. But, if you want to change the kind of men you attract, let’s focus on the factors you can control. Think of it as the part of your DNA that is irreplaceable. Sadly, most women suppress it while trying to conform to what they think is attractive.
Two things to pint out – sometimes you need to teach someone how to meet your needs and how to be a we, an us.