Dating very independent woman
You help me to loosen up and lean to be a little more co-dependent, and sometimes letting you take the reigns (I'll begrudgingly admit) is a relief.I can take a break from a practical, structured list of daily tasks to relax and let loose with you, which in all honesty keeps me sane.
It's a side effect of having a Type-A personality, and at times I don't realize when I say something directly that may come off as harsh or when I'm lost in my thoughts and have an unintentionally frustrated look on my face.If you don't message me back immediately, I won't flip out on you.I may send you a message just to see how your day is going or to ask a question, but if you're not with me, I won't blow you up. I can come off as so independent that it may be a little discouraging to you, and you might question why I'm with you in the first place.I have my step-stool to reach the high things, my workout regimen to make me strong enough to move the furniture in my apartment when I need a change, and a steady schedule and budget that I follow to pay my own way.You may not be a necessary part of my daily functions, and you're not absolutely vital to my physical existence, but the fact of the matter is that I want you.So thank you for loving me for who I am without trying to change my (sometimes frustratingly) independent lifestyle.
Independent girls care enough about their lives not to leave them in the hands of anybody else.
You being out just allows me to have the alone time that is vital to my existence.
When you get back, I'll sit and listen to the fun things that you did and probably tell you about some of the interesting parts of my day that took place while you were gone.
If you feel this way, sit down with me and we'll talk about it.
It may be that I'm stressed and trying to juggle a lot at once, so I come off as standoffish, or I may think that I would bother you by sharing what I have on my plate at the time. I like to actually try and balance work, education, social life, that alone time, and an intimate relationship even if it becomes exceedingly difficult sometimes.
If we aren't sure about you, you'll know, because we'll have said something.