Dating site survivalist
You really do not want these types knowing you are prepared for anything other than dinner.
Much of this is their past coming out, they have triggers which I personally have no idea about and then suddenly they lash out at what you think is normal behavior on your part. You might consider an exit strategy at this point, because this is a roller coaster you do not want to ride.If you are new in the dating pool take this advice. NO major career changes, no new long term relationships ( marriage or living together) and no really serious large financial decisions.Your emotions are a mess, even if you think you are ok.So, the whole jist of this post comes down to this.I wait until the 4 month mark to say much besides, I’m a bachelor who has teen children. I don’t have guns everywhere, no other things indicating I’m anything but a working single Dad.Ladies, I highly recommend you have a “friend call” in your back up plans for any first date because of these people.
Personally, when a lady I’m meeting has one of these in place I am very impressed with where her head is.
You will feel very strong emotions both good and bad until you have stabilized your life.
If it is meant to be they will still be there for you when you are sane again. Nothing like teaching someone else’s kids to stick fight in the house, nerf gun duel’s in the hallways, and making spam and yogurt omlets on sunday mornings.
The difficulty I’ve experienced is with communication.
Finding one I can talk too and she talks to me is the most elusive of the things I want to find.
We all have our crazy parts, the trick is to find someone you don’t want to change, and they don’t want to change you.