Dating but not boyfriend
But the minute a bad spell strikes — perhaps you’re sick with flu and can’t make the party on the weekend — he goes AWOL.
A guy who wants to be exclusive will want to make sure that he knows where he stands with you, and he’ll definitely want to make sure that neither of you were overstepping boundaries in your relationship. He might have had long-term relationships in the past that make you think he’s not a commitmentphobe, but check out how he speaks about commitment now.Perhaps he softened the blow by saying he just wants to enjoy the amazing time with you and see where things could go.Run away from this dude — he isn’t serious about you. Does it seem like you’re the one putting all the effort in here?She loves Oscar Wilde, organic beauty products and Italian food. Every relationship is different, but I take my love life very seriously.You deserve someone who’ll be by your side for both the good times and the bad, and he’s not it.
Giulia Simolo Giulia is a freelance writer living in Johannesburg, South Africa.
He’s using the fact that you’re seeing each other to fool you.
He doesn’t feel the need to make things official because you’re acting like a couple even if you don’t have the label attached to you.
He hasn’t taken steps towards being exclusive with you.
He’d be giving you clear signs that he likes you if he was serious about you.
You and a guy might be “talking” or “seeing each other,” but don’t let your heart get carried away.