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Dating an old high school friend

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You watched her grow up, and now she's as much as a little sister to you as you're a big sister to her.5.You absolutely crush any party together that requires a fancy dress and a dance floor because you've been doing awful corny dances together since way back when.

Ashley: We met in a college class and slowly became friends.Everyone hates it and you get some serious side-eye when it happens, but you're too busy giggling to care.He's seen you at your awkward stages and still thought you were beautiful.Ashley: We met in a seminar that was set up like a production company, and I was his boss. About a year later, after ending a terrible relationship and getting fired from my job, I went to a party at his house.He asked if anybody wanted to go four-wheeling, and I said I did. Kelly: She didn’t really know it was supposed to be a date. Ashley: I’m bisexual, and if this were true, I wouldn’t have any friends. And I have been attracted to most of them at some point or another, just not in a way that I could or wanted to sustain. Kelly: I think that viewing relationships as an inevitable thing that happens between two people who are attracted to each other takes away from the emotional vulnerability, and work, that goes into building strong commitments.When we broke up nine months later, all the usual post-breakup awkwardness and bitterness were multiplied tenfold by the fact that we were forced to hang out whenever our families got together, which was often.

On the flip side, when we rekindled the flame after college, our friendship and the friendship between our families became one of the best parts about our more-than-friendship.

When he showed up in Indiana the last time, I was terrified to try and date ANYBODY for real.

But it quickly felt natural and right after all that talking and sharing.

At each new point, we always had a conversation to find out where we were and how we felt.

I think that viewing relationships as an inevitable thing that happens between two people who are attracted to each other takes away from the emotional vulnerability, and work, that goes into building strong commitments.

I learned this lesson the hard way when I started dating a friend in high school.