Some were local (I live in San Diego) and some were long distance, but I was open to meeting someone who lived anywhere, because, who knows where my soul mate might live. Tom had sent me an email first and when I read his profile, I thought, wow, we have so much in common, and I felt really drawn to him, like an old soul buddy.
Anyway, I could go on and on about how great the site is, but bottom line, I am married because of it!As for the site itself, I think it's the best one out there.The pool of members is very focused on spirituality (conscious, mindful, metaphysical...) and green (eco-conscious), which made searching so much easier.The essay questions were like a soul-searching exercise that really helped me get clear on exactly what I was looking for and what was important to me.The Match Questions offered even more detail and clarity and once completed gave me a match percentage with men who had also answered those questions.Free members can see everything and even read and reply to messages sent from paying members.
Warm Wishes, Spiritual Singles Support Team I joined Spiritual Singles a few months ago and have been having a very good experience. I've met several women so far and am now dating someone exclusively, so we'll see if it works--definitely going in the right direction.
Also, all members can search our database as much as they like before upgrading, so there most definitely is a way to know before paying.
We encourage members to search and be sure they want to upgrade before they do so.
These questions went deep into spirituality, eco-consciousness, ethics, lifestyle, dating and some other categories I don't remember, but was super impressed.
(My hubby, Tom and I were 98% compatible, based on these questions.) There were lots of great men to connect with and I immediately started emailing with several.
I didn't have to weed through a bunch of profiles of women who I didn't have anything in common with.