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Also, you may need to realize that unlike Americans, Germans do not generally like small talk.
German Men Are Often Critical German people as a whole have been raised with very stringent rules and they are all about keeping those rules up.Germans are typically perfectionists and seem to expect this from everyone they come in contact with.Further, if you do something wrong or not by their standards they normally have no problem ridiculing you and telling you what an idiot you are.Age Makes a Difference There is a big difference between the younger generation and the older generation of German men.Younger guys tend to be more easy going and fun loving. With this being said, you may find that younger German guys will be a bit more flirtatious than older ones.For this reason dating German men can be somewhat of a challenge for a woman who is not accustomed to the customs of German people.
In reality, the above is a conception based on experience as an outsider.
Keep in mind that everyone is an individual and there is no sure fire way to know how each will react to different circumstances.
German Men Don’t Flirt as Much Again, it is important to emphasize that there are probably a handful of Casanova’s in Germany that would put the most avid lady’s man to shame.
Or you date someone you met somewhere else, online on a dating site is not unusual in Amsterdam but through work, through friends you name it.
Then you go into town together and on a good date you kiss and are tempted for sex but each go your own way (mostly,not allways but we still feel sex on a first date is less serious intentions relationwise and sex could mean the relation is off so lets have sex if i can while i am here) , if the date was good you make sure you can get in touch for another date and in general you don't make it a secret that you liked the date and the person.
In my experience most "daters" in Amsterdam like people to "be themselves" show what you feel, do what you want, say what you want.